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Anna from NY ponders the sticky issue of dining with children:
My son is 2-yrs old. When out-of-town friends come to NY to visit, they like to see him, and for us to eat out with them. They pick very nice eating establishments (not child-friendly). I always feel bad because my son doesn’t always want to just sit. I never get to eat, really. I usually take him outside for a walk to distract him. But at some of the places we’ve been to, the people who work there give me that “look”… totally hating us for being there with a child.
Anna, first of all, I love kids. In my opinion, kids can go to a “grown-up” restaurant, if you, as a parent, accept the reality of a key phrase you wrote in your comment: “I never get to eat, really.” If you’re not able to eat, it means you’re tending to your child. Simple!
NOTE: To all would-be customers who think their children’s adorableness excuses them from annoying other patrons when they are cranky or crazed. It doesn’t.
Little Lulu is restless? Take her for a walk. Monster-boy Matthew is starting to hurl silverware? Time for a tour of the foyer. Hungry Hannah is done with her Cherrios and is now sprinkling them all over the floor? Clean up after her, and follow Little Lulu outside.
And maybe you can suggest an eatery that isn’t on the cutting edge of trendy adult dining. These are your friends, right? They’ll get it.
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